I love Regretsy, not afraid to say it. I know it seems a little mean, all that snarking and such, but remember these are crafts gone bad. Real bad. So bad, if it ain't actually the mess, it'll do until the mess gets here. I had heard about the site, and like many others I've met, thought it was a little mean. Well, until I looked at the regretsys on it.
Last winter I started making armwarmers and such and selling them at various places around town. I tend to be hyper-critical of my work, it's on of my many faults, along with sarcasm, sardonic remarks, forgetting to eat, (yes dear reader, I am one of those who actually forgets to eat. I only remember when I start feeling dizzy and light-headed.), occasional tardiness, (any potential employers reading this post disregard the last), and lack of finishing my knitting projects. (I'm working on the finishing of the knitting projects. The rest, I'm afraid, are here to stay.) Putting stuff I had made out there into the public domain is a hard one for me. I have to have things perfect when it comes to my knitting and that's just for me. Imagine what I'm like when I make stuff to sell. Well, it didn't work out too well. I don't know if it was the economy or the stores I was selling in but it just didn't go as well as I thought.
I don't know if it was the economy or the stores I was selling in but I just didn't sell as much as I thought I would. It's tricky when you're designing items to sell. What you like may not be what the public wants. Your pricing, while it is fair for you, may be too much for the public. The colours you choose may not be the colours the public wants. It's a sticky wicket, this crafting for the public. I'm not sure I'll do it again this coming winter. Kind of like dating. (Ego bruise after ego bruise.)
I'm not sure is more ego bruising, dating or selling your work. Probably dating. I tend to believe in my work and will readily admit when it's below par. The dating is a little more tricky. After as many years as I've been dating I still don't understand the whole thing. Please gentlemen, what exactly do you want?
After my divorce in 2008 I decided not to date. (Hey, if you'd been married to my ex you wouldn't want anything to do with the opposite sex either.) I took a year and ignored everything that was male and not gay or related to me. It was a good year. Then, I took another. I decided to keep it going. Things were just easier that way. You don't have to dress for anyone but yourself, you don't have to worry about making someone else happy, and you don't have to fight with anyone over stupid piddly things.
Also, I have never ever been able to figure out what men want. Every friend of mine who is a guy tells me they don't want the high maintenance, overly made up, always going shopping girl. (Eyebrow raises quizzically.) So when they do meet a girl/woman who is the exact opposite of that they don't choose her. Maybe she's not as pretty as those women you see in movies but, then, you gentlemen are not as handsome as some of the men we see in the movies. Hmmmmmmm. I'm sensing a bit of a quandry here people. Just like some of the crafts on Regretsy. People say they want well made, well designed crafts but then they buy something that resembles, well, to put it kindly, something Cindy Lou Who rejected. If a Dr. Seuss character wouldn't wear it, neither should you.
What all this is leading to is my very red faced admission that I dipped my toe into the dating pool this week and was immediately rejected. By the sensitive guy, his description, not mine. I'm still on the fence as to whether this is laughable or pitiful. Ummmmm, yeah. I sent out an e-mail, he responded, asked me to send him a picture, I did, and I'm still waiting. (crickets chirp) I didn't even rate a polite rejection e-mail. How very sensitive of him.
I have been told by random people that I'm cute. Some have said adorable. Some have even said pretty. Evidently the artistic sensitive guy did not think so. I had no emotional investment, just interest. A polite e-mail saying something to the effect of sorry, you're not my type would have been fine. But silence, well, that's just insulting. Kind of like seeing your stuff sitting there on the shelf while the bad stuff, or the badly made stuff, sells. Ouch.
So much for dating for this year. I've put a moratorium on it. I think I'd rather give the crafting another chance. Somewhere out there has to be the perfect fit for my knits.